It seems obvious but daily I am struck with the concept that if you want to be the kind of person who does something…..you have to make the time to do it.
If I want to be a writer I have to write.
If I want my kids to feel like they are heard, I have to listen
If I want to play the guitar I need to play it.
If I want to be a woman of the Word, I better read it,
If I want to be fit, I need to work out.
If I want to be loving I need to love.
At what point do I internalize those lessons?
Abby Norman 
Psalm 90. Teach us to number our days aright, that we might gain a heart of wisdom.
Our days do become our lives.